{"id":1556,"date":"2025-01-12T21:43:10","date_gmt":"2025-01-12T21:43:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/?p=1556"},"modified":"2025-01-22T17:22:13","modified_gmt":"2025-01-22T17:22:13","slug":"a-valas-hatasa-gyerekekre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/a-valas-hatasa-gyerekekre\/","title":{"rendered":"The effect of divorce on children"},"content":{"rendered":"
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If children are involved in the divorce, it is essential that you take responsibility for processing your feelings. You may no longer be bound by marriage, but parenthood will bring you together regularly. If you work through your feelings towards your ex, you will not accidentally take out your anger on the children because of problems you had with the other parent. Processing will help you serve their best interests, build a better relationship with them, and much more. <\/a>rather than reinforcing the feeling that they come from a broken family. Your marriage may end, but your children don't have to be torn apart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

People rarely enter into marriage with the idea that divorce will eventually creep into the relationship. Instead, they have the idea that they will spend the rest of their lives together. When a marriage breaks down, for whatever reason, these dreams and desires for the future need to be articulated. If you decide to do so and the processing takes place, you will be in a much better position to enter into a new and lasting relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We learn early on to be strong. The best way to become truly strong is to take the first step toward emotional healing. Perhaps your relationship has reached the point where divorce has proven to be the right decision in this process. The next and best step is to work on your healing instead of continuing to carry the burden of the past. Ultimately, the decision is yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can let others control your happiness, or you can take back control. If you wait for things to get better over time, you will remain stuck where you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are many people who are still greatly affected emotionally by their ex. This person still knows how to push their buttons. Sometimes consciously. Sometimes because certain comments trigger their previous emotional responses. However, after processing, you will be freed from this type of control. Your ex will just be another person and not someone who has an impact on you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can look back fondly on the good memories in relationships that you had buried or forgotten because of conflicts. You can regain control of your emotions and find happiness again, because as we process the pain of the past, we become open to being happy again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you recognize yourself in this description, send me a message and let's talk about your situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7(Grief Recovery\u00ae)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fot\u00f3: RDNE Stock project, pexels<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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Ha a v\u00e1l\u00e1sban van \u00e9rintett gyermek is, alapvet\u0151en fontos, hogy v\u00e1llald a feldolgoz\u00e1st. Lehet, hogy t\u00f6bb\u00e9 m\u00e1r nem k\u00f6t \u00f6ssze a h\u00e1zass\u00e1g, de a sz\u00fcl\u0151s\u00e9g rendszeresen \u00f6sszehoz benneteket. Ha dolgozol az exedhez f\u0171z\u0151d\u0151 \u00e9rz\u00e9seiddel, nem fogod v\u00e9letlen\u00fcl sem a gyerekekre \u00f6nteni a m\u00e9rgedet azon probl\u00e9m\u00e1k miatt, melyek a m\u00e1sik sz\u00fcl\u0151vel voltak. A feldolgozotts\u00e1g seg\u00edteni fog abban, hogy a legjobb \u00e9rdek\u00fcket szolg\u00e1ld, jobb kapcsolatot \u00e9p\u00edts ki vel\u00fck, sokkal <\/a>ink\u00e1bb, mint r\u00e1er\u0151s\u00edteni arra, hogy \u00e9rezz\u00e9k, csonka csal\u00e1db\u00f3l sz\u00e1rmaznak. A h\u00e1zass\u00e1god megszakadhat, de a gyerekeknek nem felt\u00e9tlen\u00fcl kell \u00f6sszet\u0151rni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Az emberek ritk\u00e1n l\u00e9pnek h\u00e1zass\u00e1gra azzal a gondolattal, hogy a v\u00e1l\u00e1s majd id\u0151vel begy\u0171r\u0171zik a kapcsolatba. Ezzel ellent\u00e9tben az a gondolat van az emberek fej\u00e9ben, hogy \u00e9let\u00fck h\u00e1tralev\u0151 r\u00e9sz\u00e9t egy\u00fctt \u00e9lik meg. Amikor egy h\u00e1zass\u00e1g megszakad, b\u00e1rmilyen okb\u00f3l is, ezeket az \u00e1lmokat, v\u00e1gyakat a j\u00f6v\u0151re vonatkoz\u00f3an meg kell fogalmazni. Ha \u00fagy d\u00f6ntesz \u00e9s a feldolgoz\u00e1s megt\u00f6rt\u00e9nik, sokkal jobb helyzetben leszel, hogy egy \u00faj \u00e9s tart\u00f3s kapcsolatba l\u00e9pj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Azt m\u00e1r kor\u00e1n megtanuljuk, hogy legy\u00fcnk er\u0151sek. A legjobb m\u00f3dja, hogy igaz\u00e1n er\u0151sek legy\u00fcnk az, hogy megtessz\u00fck az els\u0151 l\u00e9p\u00e9st az \u00e9rzelmi gy\u00f3gyul\u00e1sunk\u00e9rt. Tal\u00e1n m\u00e1r oda jutott a kapcsolat, hogy a v\u00e1l\u00e1s bizonyult j\u00f3 d\u00f6nt\u00e9snek ebben a folyamatban. A k\u00f6vetkez\u0151 \u00e9s a lehet\u0151 legjobb l\u00e9p\u00e9s, hogy teszel a feldolgoz\u00e1sod\u00e9rt, ahelyett, hogy a m\u00falt terh\u00e9t tov\u00e1bb cipeld. V\u00e9g\u00fcl a d\u00f6nt\u00e9s a ti\u00e9d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Engedheted, hogy m\u00e1sok kontroll\u00e1lj\u00e1k a boldogs\u00e1godat, vagy visszaveszed az ir\u00e1ny\u00edt\u00e1st. Ha azt v\u00e1rod, hogy az id\u0151 m\u00fal\u00e1s\u00e1val jobb\u00e1 legyenek a dolgok, meg fogsz rekedni ott ahol vagy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sokan vannak, akikre \u00e9rzelmileg m\u00e9g mindig \u00f3ri\u00e1si hat\u00e1ssal van az exe. Ez az illet\u0151 m\u00e9g mindig tudja nyomogatni a gombjaikat. N\u00e9ha tudatosan. N\u00e9ha az\u00e9rt, mert bizonyos megjegyz\u00e9sek visszavezetik \u0151ket kor\u00e1bbi \u00e9rzelmi v\u00e1laszokra. Viszont a feldolgoz\u00e1s ut\u00e1n felszabadulsz az ilyen jelleg\u0171 kontroll al\u00f3l. Az exed m\u00e1r csak egy m\u00e1sik szem\u00e9ly marad \u00e9s nem egy olyan valaki, aki hat\u00e1ssal van r\u00e1d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sz\u00edvesebben eml\u00e9kezhetsz vissza a sz\u00e9p eml\u00e9kekre abban a kapcsolatban, amiket m\u00e1r eltemett\u00e9l vagy elfelejtett\u00e9l a konfliktusok miatt. Az \u00e9rzelmi kontrollodat visszaszerezheted \u00e9s megtal\u00e1lod \u00fajra a boldogs\u00e1got, mert ahogy feldolgozzuk a m\u00falt f\u00e1jdalmait, nyitott\u00e1 v\u00e1lunk, hogy \u00fajra boldogok legy\u00fcnk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ha magadra ismert\u00e9l, \u00edrj r\u00e1m messengeren \u00e9s besz\u00e9lj\u00fcnk a helyzetedr\u0151l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Grief Recovery\u00ae)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fot\u00f3: RDNE Stock project, pexels<\/p>\n","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[53,5,62,26],"tags":[63,65],"class_list":["post-1556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-gyasz","category-valas","category-veszteseg","tag-valas","tag-valas-hatasa"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1556","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1556"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1556\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1590,"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1556\/revisions\/1590"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1557"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/segito-tars.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}